Second Impressions: They Count More Than You Would Assume
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Cult Introduction
The first impression is very important since it is usually the one that most people will hold about us for a long time. However, second impressions could be of greater importance. Since people appear to have made up their minds in most opinions, second impressions tend to avail a space for improvement on the view people have of you and even mend the gaps that were left during the first meeting. No matter whether it is a social situation, workplace or even cyberspace, often second impressions can alter the course of relationships and even the definition of the personal or professional image. Why then is the second impression so much more valued than people are willing to concede?
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The psychology of the first and second impressions
Whenever one meets a new person, their heads to a large extent form opinions based on the given person’s physical attributes or the intonation within their speech as well as gestures. Nevertheless, the first impression is not always the right impression. This is where second impressions are warranted. They enable the person to change their mind with regards to their views of the other person. For instance, perhaps the individual in question is a little ADHD at times, perhaps he is drained during the initial encounters or is simply having a comparatively off day.
The Impact of Second Impressions in Relationships
In personal and professional allies, second impressions can take the course of a relationship in an entirely different, usually quite favorable, direction. An employee who can be perceived as unfriendly initially may prove to be easily approachable and super supportive after an adequate interaction. The quality of second impressions has an impact on how people understand your attitude towards work, their level of professionalism in general, and often your whole personality.
In terms of mating, or making friends, aspects concerning second impressions are as critical as first ones. Any first date may have lots of ‘troubling’ factors that can be corrected by the next and second date. People tend to be comfortable, and even a little bit wild, when the opportunity to meet again arises, thus the second impression has the opportunity to overwrite the first perception, which may have been wrong in the first place.
One of Our Goals Making Good Second Impressions
1.Be Genuine
If the previous impression you gave was poor, do not try to go above and beyond to atone for it. Rather, be any way you want to be. Words that can be said in the seconds give more power than in the first encounters.
2.Acknowledge the First Encounter
Once in a while, just begin with the weirdness of the first meeting. It makes you more human and removes the tension immediately.
3.Listen Actively
Whether in a formal environment or informal setting, the act of listening and responding carefully and respectfully can further enhance second impressions.
4. Be Conscious of Nonverbal Signals
How people perceive the second impression of you can be negatively or positively affected through non verbal communication. Ensure that your bodily movements are in consonance with the message that you wish to put across.
Conclusion
Though first impressions lead many to the belief that they either make or break interactions, there is something personal and informative about second impressions as well. Capable of delivering an effective second impression proves to be a big part of either one’s social or professional world. When meeting someone new or for the second time, understand that the impression left behind is always fluid and can still be modified to remedy any flaws.
FAQs
Q1. Do second impressions alter peoples’ perception or opinion as a fact?
Answer. Yes. This is because second impressions always give it the chance to make a well informed decision. This is because the first meeting usually evokes panic and other distractions. Thus the second meeting can paint a better picture.
Q2. I’ve been told that I may not have made a good first impression. What do I do now?
Answer. It is fine to acknowledge such an awkward situation as the one caused by bad impressions. What I recommend is earnest effort to be oneself the second time around.
Q3. Why do second impressions count more than first impressions?
Answer. One’s first impression tends to be very cheap and is based on one’s quick judgment of a person. Whereas a second impression allows a person to change their focus and demonstrate who they really are.
Q4. What can I do in order to make better second impressions?
Answer. Be honest, attentive and exhibit. Body language is really important – your body has to say ‘I’m Open & Confident’ hands out, especially through small adjustments.
